The pain of moving
There is no greater trauma than having to leave your hometown where you have practically spent all your life. Moving to a new place becomes harder as you grow older and affects you more strongly than you are willing to admit. Your pesky barber in your hometown suddenly does not seem to be as insufferable as you thought he was. And you begin to believe that your neighbour actually had the best of intentions when he felled the tree that landed on your garage roof.
The Family
Kids, however, are more enthusiastic to the idea of moving to a new place and their enthusiasm actually what works for them. Children are excited at the chance of meeting new people, and making new friends. Did we just mention new friends? How do kids do it more easily than their parents? Simply put, they have fewer inhibitions compared to their parents.
Learning from children
They do not need an ice-breaker to start a conversation and they instinctively feel that the sooner they make friends, the better their lives are going to be in school and in the neighborhood. They realize the importance of being a part of an influential and ‘cool’ group to hang out with. Kids today have heaps of friends on social networking sites, most of whom they have never even met face-to-face.
Kids Network
Children generally show more enthusiasm for meeting new people. They understand the importance of being part of a group. They have experienced the power of social media. They know how to take the initiative needed to make it all happen. Kids, as usual, have shown the way to us adults. All we are required to do is follow in their footsteps.
What we can do in addition
- Social Networking sites: This is still your best bet to do the groundwork as most of us are part of some Social Networking (SN) sites. Get those friends who are based in your new city to play local ice-breakers and to make introductions.
- Social cause: Find a worthy social cause dear to the community you are moving into. Pledge your time and funds to gain acceptance and approval.
- Sports & Games: Join the local sports club. This is a great way to gain visibility in the neighborhood and get in touch with the elite members of the local business community.
- Join PTA: Joining Parent-Teacher Association (PTA) or a similar body at your children’s school is a great way to interact and make common cause with other parents.
- Hold themed parties: Cocktail parties, kitty parties and kiddo parties are a great way to meet new people. The more people you meet and interact with, the greater are your chances of being able to be accepted by your new hosts.
